Welcome, Guest. SHORT ANSWER: While I can't say it is "wrong", I do not see a happy future for two Hmong youth with the same last name who date or get. So why are a lot of Hmong people against taboo, same last name dating.
I know many Hmong women who refuse to date, let alone marry a Hmong man. Anonymous So why are a lot of Hmong people against taboo, same last name dating. I don't understand how millions of you would rather. By NuCheeDecember 19, in soompi hangout.
The Hmong people are an ethnic group currently native to several countries, believed to have come from the Yangtze river basin area in southern China. First off, I'm Hmong. And for us, we cannot date nor marry people who have the same last name as you. (Like a person with the last name Lee. It's been 40 years since the Hmong people first began arriving in Minnesota.
The Hmong consists of 18 last sur names, making up 18 official clans. It is taboo to marry someone from the same clan. For instance, someone with the Yang last name cannot marry another Yang. The first one is a formal proposal.
Forums New posts Search forums. The majority of hardcore Hmong Christians I've met still blindly follow the obsolete traditional Hmong rule of no dating anyone of your last name. Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in the blog posts are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of Hnub Tshiab: Hmong Women Achieving Together.
So far, I have never seem a marriage Hmong couple with the same last,e.g the Lo some people with the same last name but spell differently that are dating.
While our same-age boy-kin dug holes, played video games, and sucked on soda A married Hmong woman has no rights, cannot be raped by her husband. . Last year my mother and an “uncle” set me up with his nephew, TonyV who is a He wasn't using his real or full name (so I don't use it here).
An understanding of the family/clan structure is critical to the care of Hmong For example, the last name Saykaothao indicates that their grandfather was Say Kao Multiple generations frequently choose to live in the same household for.